Anchored by T30 · For the person whose trust was broken · Empathy Journal
Hold your own experience while trying to see theirs.
Empathy Journal is available to both partners. In Anchored, name the person and situation, identify your feelings, consider each person’s experience, then decide what belongs in conversation.
Prepare for conversation
Practice understanding to prepare a question, boundary, or support request.
Available in both paths
Your part
Repair + response
How Empathy Journal works
Move from the moment to a clear next step.
The prompts keep assumptions visible while helping you examine the situation, each person’s possible experience, and your response.
- 1 Name the person and situationDescribe the moment and use the feelings wheel to identify what you feel.
- 2 Examine both experiencesName your pain, consider how the other person may feel, and how your experiences are intersecting.
- 3 Define the next right stepChoose a question, boundary, support request, or conversation that follows from the reflection.
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